My Coach Is Hitting On Me; Your Opinion?

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I have not been consistent with blogging lately, partly due to academic demands, and more is the challenge of getting my device charged. (Electricity supply has been very poor here lately). So, having a flat battery has been the order the day for me and it's been very disheartening and discouraging. Loyal friends, please bear with my inconsistencies, it's gonna last only a while, I trust God. Today, I just want to talk on a situation I'm currently faced with and I'd be seeking your opinions.

I don't even know how to begin!

 Ok, here.

I'm a plus sized, not that plus though... I'm somewhere between size 10 and 12, not as big as you might think, lol. And well, we all know that what is in trend now is being less than a size 10, therefore, I've been working out. Luckily for me, I have a neighbor who is a student and also a trainer. He trains me without charging a dime, and thus has made working out a lot better for me. Now, my challenge is, he's been hitting on me (Urban Dictionary: trying to get someone to like you by flirting with them).

What I mean is, "my coach" has a crush on me, and really, it is not funny at all, so please don't laugh. It would have been much better if he had not told me about it, but he did anyway. Now I'm turn between firing him from being my coach and at the same time regress in my weight loss program OR to just keep playing it safe with him and pray that he would get over his infatuation soon (he's not even a Christian).

People of God, I'm making this open to suggestions, I want you to tell me what you feel, and what you would have done if you were in this same situation. You can either comment here (please feel free to be anonymous), or mail your opinions to ayodamola4@gmail.com Thank you.

Shalom

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Anonymous said…
There was a man in Zambia which my father in the Lord told me about.. When they were praying and this young man saw them, he bursted into tears and they asked him why he was crying, and he said he once used to pray then... Then the Holy spirit began to tell me about this brother that it was sexual immoralities that made his salvation a past tense before God's intervention.. What do I mean by this sexual immoralities? It started from having girlfriends then it graduated on and on... What I'm trying to say is that because you are a Christian doesn't mean you can't lose your salvation.. It starts from this little little things.. My advice is to stay away from him completely
30 January 2016 at 22:29
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