What Next After Meeting Jesus

I'm so sorry you had to wait this long to hear from me again. Honestly, this matter is beyond me. I wanted to be sure to have a formula that works (emphasis on works) before I came here. I've been going back and forth on this tab for days now, but thank God, I'm ready now. Voila! I have the formula that works :) This week is my relationship's one year anniversary, yeah, you read that right, lol. Okay, our own anniversary is when we met, because we couldn't exactly place the day when we officially kicked off. So we settled for the day we met instead as anniversary, lol. Back to the matter at hand, Christian life, sex life, and real life. After my interrogation with a couple of dating believers, I realized that in the first months of being in love, they can't get enough of each other and they want to convince their psychology that they'd be with each other for life. It is like when you get a child a new toy,  he plays with it all day, he becomes so en...

"So I say to those who aren't married and to widows - it's better to stay unmarried just as I am. But if they can't control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It is better to marry than to burn with lust". 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 NLT Last week,  we were deeply concerned on how to maintain sexual purity, even as a mature adult. Mature adult here means that, you have found your purpose and are walking in it. You know what you want, you know where you are and you know where you are going. You know good from bad, and right from wrong. From the opening scripture above, the counsel is to get married. However, most people still feel they aren't ready yet, they still have some things not figured out yet. But who says you must have everything figured out before you put a ring on it? The truth is, till one dies, one would never have everything figured out. In the early days, marrying as a virgin wasn't farfetched. The reason was simply because they mos...

Wow! If you're reading this right now, something is about to get stirred up within you. So brace yourself and be ready!!! Hebrews 13:4 NLT "Give honour to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery". Every one who knows me personally can attest to my belief in sexual purity. I am, in a way, a sexual purity advocate. However, this advocacy of mine is getting hit by the strong wind of real life. While we were younger, we were taught in church to keep the bed undefiled. And that was pretty much easy to do. The "don't have a boyfriend" rule was quite easy to maintain. "Don't be alone in a room with the opposite sex" was also in a way protective and sensible at the time. I could go on and on. And really, personally for me, as a teenager and as an emerging adult, those rules were life to me. I lived them (not 100% tho, but I tried, lol). Today, in 201...